Monday, April 22, 2013

2 Week Update...well, make that a 3 week update (Warning: Lots of extremely adorable photos!!)


Well little man has been around for 2 whole weeks now, and it's STILL not real to me.  I really do have amazing babies.  I can handle waking up a couple times at night (as long as no one expects anything from me until my coffee is made in the morning).

-------- That was all I've written in the last 2 weeks ----- whoops, I guess it's safe to say this whole 'having 3 kids' thing is catching up to me.....I swear I started writing this post when you were 2 weeks old - I guess we will just make it a 3 week update now - Moving along....(I will fill everyone in on a few details, but I will let the photos and captions do most of the talking for me).

You're now 3 weeks old!!! We had your doctors appointment on Monday (April 15th) you were 9 pounds 2 ounces and 21.5" long - growing boy!

You're still eating lots, and you are getting more and more animated - Momma loves taking pictures of all your silly faces - see below.  B and Z still are so in love with you.  You're waking up a few times a night still (about 2 or 3).  You love to snuggle, and are starting to work on tummy time (although, just like your brothers, you usually fall right asleep when we put you on your belly). 

Now...for what's been going on around here -

Your nub fell out
You had your first "modeling gig" with Tanja @ Contemporary Expressions for Boppy Pillows

We took you on your first trip to the outlet mall
All 3 boys passed out in the car on the way home - successful day!
...of course we had lots of movie nights
Hanging out in bed with Mommy in the middle of the night
Big Brother Zachy coming in for baby kisses

You are pretty funny Little Guy...

...see what I mean?

Of course there has been lots of "show" watching with brothers

And you LOVE your MamaRoo!

Seriously, just too cute for words

In your happy place

...I am totally "that mom" right now

....Mommy's quite time

You still love snuggles

Sending pictures to Daddy at work

More of your happy place - I just love watching you sleep

....brothers are never too far away!

Mommy and Zachy at dinner

More brother ottoman time :)
Your very expressive...


...and happy

Action shot - everyone is playing and you're just laughing

It was a rough day for you and Zachy

....see what I mean about the expressions

Nighttime snuggles with Mommy

Daddy took Braden to the Avs game

Everytime I look at this photo I just crack up!

Getting ready for family pictures the next day
Nighttime snuggles with Daddy

"Shh don't tell Mommy what we do while she is away"
Checking out B

Hanging out with your big Bros




More mommy snuggles

"Can't the 4 year old just babysit the 2 year old and newborn?"

Movie night with my 4 boys :)

Early morning watching shows in bed with Zachary

"Excuse me sir, you're in my spot"

More hilarious expressions from you!


And there is that smile...check out that dimple too!

Drinking from a bottle like a big boy!

Milk drunk


You really do like hanging out with them (for now at least)

Photo montage of more silly faces


At the Great Cloth Diaper Change

Hanging out with your buddy Beckett at the GCDC

Headed out to our first Rockies game as a family of 5!
Big Man Zachy eating dinner at the game

HUGE SUCCESS!!!! (More on this another day maybe)

Well Little Sir, that's all I have for now...as you can see you are so so so so loved by all of us!  You are such a great baby and have made this whole 'family of 5' thing a breeze so far.  You have grown so much in the last 3 weeks, and I have loved every moment of it!!! 



Saturday, April 6, 2013

Zachary's 1st Day of Soccer

Since Chase and I were still on our vacation at "SpaRidge" Hospital last Saturday, I was not able to attend the boys first day of soccer classes/practice :( Paul took them while Nonna and Papa tagged along for support though!!  My parents took the video camera and filmed nearly the entire hour for me ;)  Everything from Nonna trying to find Braden's class to Zachary and Braden doing drills.

This was by far the best moment.  The coach instructed the kids to stack the cones up and then kick the ball at the cones to knock them down.  Well this is what Zachary did...Watch out Pele and Beckham!!



Friday, April 5, 2013

Happy 1 Week Birthday Little!

*disclaimer - please ignore the horrible horrible grammar, sentence structure, punctuation, paragraph structure, narrative structure, basically every rule in the English language...*

Can you believe it's already been a week since you were born....I CAN'T!

A little bit about our last week/your first week in this world -

Hi cute sir
Weight/Feeding: You were 8 pounds when we left the hospital on Sunday (down 10 ounces from your birth weight, which the doctors assure is just fine).  My milk has finally come in after almost a week, so you shouldn't have a problem packing in the ounces from here on out.  You're a chugger like your brothers - which is a good thing.  You manage to get through a feeding in about 15 minutes, and I couldn't image what it would be like around here if it took any longer than that!  You're also eating about 8-10 times a day/night, depending on how tired you are during the day.  

Diapers: We finished up the 2 packs of newborn diapers they gave us in the hospital, and since I refused to purchase any newborn diapers at the store (because you're a little chunk), you are in size 1s, we just fold them down a little bit since your nub has not fallen out yet.  I also love putting you in the Lil Joey's.  We only have 4 of those though, so you cycle through those in about half a day (and I'm not doing extra wash, so they get washed with brothers diapers about every 4 days)  

Schedule: You don't really have a set schedule yet during the day since it's pretty crazy around here to say the least, but you have nighttime down pretty well.  You go to "bed" around 10pm, wake up around 1am to eat, pass back out until 6am-ish, eat, and then wake up around 8am when your brothers wake up.  This is where it gets crazy! 

You're pretty content for a few minutes while Mama makes her morning coffee, gets brothers some breakfast, then the 3 of you will eat together.  After breakfast we go into your room and the 3 of you get dressed for the day.  Then Braden just wants to hold you (which is great, so I can get dressed).  I'll turn on a kid show for y'all and you will usually lay around for an hour or so.  Around 10am you're ready to eat again (and yes, you stay awake for almost 2 hours in the mornings!), then pass out.  You have been sleeping anywhere from 15 minutes to 2 hours during this nap - honestly, I think you just want to snuggle Mama during this time because obviously if I am holding you then you sleep longer.  

Lunch is anywhere between 11-1 for your brothers, and you eat whenever you wake up from your afternoon sleep.  Sometimes you hang out, sometimes you pass back out...either way we just go with it.  You're back up around 4-ish, eat, hang out, poop, sleep...you get the drill....that happens a couple more times throughout the evening.  It's really nice because you have been sleeping through our dinner time, so I am able to throw something together for the rest of the family during this time.  The last couple nights it's been a lot of leftovers, Costco Chicken and Salad, and we actually did manage to go out to eat last night for the first time!!!

Kid show time with brothers...is this really my life??
Milestones: Daddy went back to work on Tuesday, and you got your newborn pictures taken on Thursday.  Obviously your first bath at home (just a sponge bath though since your nub has not fallen out yet).  Your brothers really enjoyed helping out with this.  Braden wanted to make sure you were okay (since you were screaming your head off) and Zach just wanted to dump water on your.  We went out for the first time as a family of 5 to dinner....I mean you really just eat, sleep, and poop, so there has not really been anything too exciting going on ;-)


All clean post bath
Loves: Afternoon snuggles, eating, laying on the ottoman with brothers, looking around trying to check out the world around, sleeping, and pooping/farting (seriously, you're a Schleifer-Bell boy already) :) 

Night time snuggles with Daddy
Dislikes: When Braden and Zachary poke you (obviously), getting your diaper changed (stop pooping so much boy!), and I think I might have to add the bassinet to this list.  At first I thought you just liked sleeping when someone was holding you, but now I am starting to realize you will sleep almost anywhere except your cradle.

B scolding Zachary for poking you
Adventures: I took all 3 of you boys out by myself on Thursday, and we went out to dinner for the 1st time as a family of 5 on Thursday night to Gunther Toody's.

Headed out for the 1st time

Out to dinner

Silly Daddy and Brothers
Mommy and Daddy could not get through the week without: Netflix instant stream (for your brothers) - Best. Babysitter. Ever.  You're also the 1st of the 3 to enjoy being swaddled, so your blankets have been a life saver.  The weather has been beautiful, so we are able to go on a walk with brothers and daddy after work which has been helping them get out of the house for a bit and not go completely stir crazy.

Braden: Oh man does your big brother just adore you!!! He just wants to have you sit with him on the Boppy all day.  The other day during Zach's therapy he was playing puppet with your arms while you were sleeping.  It didn't phase you, but it freaked Mommy out.  He loves to stand with us while you get your diaper changed and will talk to you and try to sooth you while you're freaking out.  He also enjoys picking out your outfit/Pjs for the day.  He was such a big helper with Zach when we went out.  Holding his hand, walking with him, etc.  He is very concerned with your 'drinking' habits, making sure you are getting enough, and asks if you're thirsty all the time.

And then Paul comes home.  When Paul gets off work Braden has been turning into a completely different child, being naughty and rebellious, having meltdowns for no apparent reason, it's been tough.  I think it's an attention issue, he feels threatened that his time with Paul is going to be taken away maybe?  I am not sure, all I know is that something better change with that behavior in the next few days or he is going to be spending a lot of lonely spring nights in his room and not outside playing once daddy arrives home. 

Zachary: At first he was having quite a hard time adjusting.  I think that both the boys were just coming down from a crazy weekend.  Nonna and Papa had watched them while I was in the hospital so they were just not in their normal element/routine.  Now that things have calmed down and it's just the 5 of us in the house, I really think Zach was just over stimulated.  (Side note: Stimulation and sensory issues are one of the many things that he works with his therapists on every week.)  Anyways, now that he has come down from the craziness, he is doing MUCH better!! He loves laying on the ottoman with you, runs in to check on you while you're sleeping, tries to give you a binky when you're being fussy, makes sure your socks are always on (since they are ALWAYS falling off), will help me get out diapers, just to name a few thing.

He is also talking A LOT!  Like talking, and saying words!  I am not sure if having you around has been motivation for him to start talking, or he is just starting to figure it out.  He will repeat the last word of directions you tell/ask him or things you say to him, he will point and tell you 'names' of items when he sees them (a favorite is 'socks!'), tell me what he is handing me (diaper, plate, spoon).  He also has picked a heck of a time to learn the word 'NO' and start talking back to Paul and I.  Lastly, he is starting to stand up for himself against Braden.  Paul and I sometimes don't know whether to scold him, or be proud of him for getting back at B.  

So that's pretty much it Mr Chase.  Your first week, I hope you have enjoyed it as much as we have!

Happy 1 Week Birthday Mr Chase!! :)



Thursday, April 4, 2013

What's in a name?

What's in a name you ask?  Most people (that I know) just pick a name for their baby with their spouse that they like.  Easy as pie right?  Not so much around here.  Our kids names have to pass what I call the "Christmas Card Test".  Simply put, all our names have to sound good together on the Christmas card...you know -
"Merry Christmas, Love Paige, Paul, Braden, Zachary and Chase"

I have a whole list of "rules" to ensure that none of the boys name are to matchy matchy (Braden, Kaden, Haden...you get the picture, yes?).  They can't end in the same sound, can't start with the same letter, etc. etc.

And then middle names.  I like the idea of having family middle names and honoring someone special in our lives by passing their name along to our children.  Sort of something to aspire to for them I guess.  I also want the first and middle names to sound good together.  

Lastly, the last name.  Of course I had to make that seemingly easy decision difficult as well.  We decided to hyphenate Braden's last name since Paul and I were not married (or really even together) when he was born.  And then with Zachary we wanted to keep it the same as Braden's, and then obviously Chase is not going to have a different last name than his brothers.  At this point I probably won't even change my last name when Paul and I do get legally married, or I will hyphenate my last name as well.  So then the choice was either Schleifer-Bell or Bell-Schleifer.  Bell-Schleifer sounded like 'Bill Schleifer' to me, and that just sounded like a fat, gross plumbers name...so Schleifer-Bell it was ;-)

So, What's in a name? 

*Braden Richard Schleifer-Bell (after my grandfather - mom's dad)
*Zachary Charles Schleifer-Bell (after Paul's grandfather - father's father)
*Chase Weldon Schleifer-Bell (after my dad - his middle name)  I also got a whole family history lesson from my aunt, and Weldon was also my great-grandfathers middle name, and probably came from somewhere else before then. 

The new 3 Amigos - Paul has been replaced



Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Welcome to the madness Mr Chase Weldon

Do I seriously have a free moment right now to be typing this?  I mean, if you consider B and Z watching a 'kid show' on the couch, while I feed the baby and type one handed a free moment - why then YES, I do have a free moment right now!!!

We will try keep this short and sweet -
Side note: this post ended up taking me all day to write!

Welcome to the world Mr Chase Weldon!  You were born on March 29th at 10:47am after a fairly easy and uncomplicated delivery.  More details on that may come on a later post.  You were 8 pounds 9.9 ounces (why they didn't just say 10 ounces I have no idea) and 20 inches long.  Your head was also 14 1/4 inches.  Where does that put you on the Schleifer-Bell roster you ask?  You were the shortest, weighed the most, and had the middle size head (with the least amount of hair) ;-) Daddy guessed your weight - he said you were going to be 8lbs 9ozs like the year mommy was born.  We all thought you were going to be longer - and I for sure thought you were going to be a few ounces bigger [at least].  I guess I was just trying to blame all the last minute weight gain on you ;-) 

Your big brothers just adore you!  Braden just wants to hold you all the time.  It works out pretty nicely.  We prop you up in your Boppy pillow on his lap on the couch, and he actually sits still.  Zach picked a heck of a time to start his "terrible twos" (more on that later).  But he just wants to be involved and is not used to not having all the attention.  I will try to write up a post shortly on how each of the boys is adjusting specifically, but all you need to know right now is that we are all adjusting to this new and exciting life.

Daddy went back to work today, and so far it has not been horrible.  Lets get a couple days under our belts and then we can talk about how we are adjusting to life as a family of 5, and how I am doing organizing and figuring out our new schedules.  I can tell you one thing for sure though, this whole "lets ALL wake up at 7am" is not going to fly for much longer ;-) I also need to take a Mommy moment to let the world know I am down to 148lbs.  Still a ways to go, but 20 pounds in 4 days...I'll take it.

And now...photos of the little guy :)

Last night as a family of 4!!

I just had an 8 pound baby...what's his excuse?
Getting all checked out and cleaned up

 
Proud Daddy

Meeting his big brothers for the first time

 
First photo as a family of 5


 
I need to photoshop some of these still ;-)


 
Proud Big Brother Braden


 
Zachary yelling "Hi!" and "Baby!" to his little brother


 
Chase Weldon




Oh man...what do we have coming to us?

Going home outfit, also the first outfit we ever bought for Braden

 
Loving on his baby bro


 
First night home bedtime story


 
Nonna and Papa with the Grandkids and puppies


 
Success!


 
Checking out his biggest brother


 
Someone still thinks he is the baby ;-)


 
More 1st day home alone success!


 
Our Baby blueprint - Top: Braden, Bottom: Zachary, Right: Chase


 
Little Bald Baby - Top: Zachary, Left: Braden, Right: Chase

....That's all for now - I will update everyone more when I get some more "free time".  You can always check out Instagram for daily photos ;-)